from Jacqueline
If you hadn’t guessed already, this has been a bit of a challenging year for me thus far. A collarbone injury that refuses to heal, my prolonged bout of severe bronchitis, and having to cancel half my book tour. There’s more, though I won’t bore you with the details. But there was a light on the horizon – an adventure planned last November with my friend Corinne, when I thought I would have a healed collar bone in double-quick time, no chest infections or any other illness, no problems with my mother (who needs high risk hip replacement surgery), and nothing to get in the way of my book tour. You remember the saying about how to make God laugh by telling him your plans? I’ll remember that next time I look ahead at the year and start slotting in this and that with a sense of abandon, playing fast and loose with Fate. In March, when I complained to my doctor that I had to get rid of the bronchitis quickly, as I had a book tour to finish, plus a trip to England to see my mother ... and a trip to Costa Rica, she looked at me in disbelief and said, “You’re not going anywhere until I say you can!”
If you hadn’t guessed already, this has been a bit of a challenging year for me thus far. A collarbone injury that refuses to heal, my prolonged bout of severe bronchitis, and having to cancel half my book tour. There’s more, though I won’t bore you with the details. But there was a light on the horizon – an adventure planned last November with my friend Corinne, when I thought I would have a healed collar bone in double-quick time, no chest infections or any other illness, no problems with my mother (who needs high risk hip replacement surgery), and nothing to get in the way of my book tour. You remember the saying about how to make God laugh by telling him your plans? I’ll remember that next time I look ahead at the year and start slotting in this and that with a sense of abandon, playing fast and loose with Fate. In March, when I complained to my doctor that I had to get rid of the bronchitis quickly, as I had a book tour to finish, plus a trip to England to see my mother ... and a trip to Costa Rica, she looked at me in disbelief and said, “You’re not going anywhere until I say you can!”
The seeds for our expedition were
sown many, many years ago, when Corinne and I were in our early twenties.
Confirmed travel buddies, we always said we would do a big trip when we hit the
big 6-0, which was then the official retirement age for women in the UK – fat
chance of being able to retire at 60 now!
Funny how those years whipped by – it was last October when Corinne emailed
to say, “When are we going, and where are we going?” And we set to planning, with one problem to
overcome – everywhere we wanted to go demanded either a very long journey for
me, or a very long journey for Corinne, who lives in Harrogate, England. New Zealand, South Africa, India … every exotic country on the planet came up for consideration and was deemed too much for one of us. Then Corinne
said, “How about Costa Rica?” We checked
flight times, and – on paper – it seemed that she would only have a couple of
hours more travel time than me. At last,
were off to the races!
If you haven’t gathered this
before, in previous Travels With Corinne posts,
it doesn’t take much to kick start fits of giggles when we get together. My 'plane landed a half hour before
Corinne’s, so I was waiting for her when she came through the arrivals hall,
and her first question was, “I think I need some colons!” I started to laugh. “How about some commas as a side order?” I
replied – and that was it, we were off! The
stage for our adventure had been set – this was going to be a lot of fun! (The currency in Costa Rica should be
pronounced “col-on-es” and should not sound like either a part of human
plumbing system, or punctuation).
We used American $$$ anyway.
I know many readers will have
already visited Costa Rica, so I won’t bore you with the sort of things you can
read in any travel magazine, but I want to write about those elements that
really struck me during our visit, and some of our highlights.
Our first day in the country was
spent in San Jose, the capital, where we made our way from our lovely old hotel,
the Hotel Grano de Oro, into the center
of the city.
We set off for a walk on our first
morning, and within one block came across what looked like a street party – I
guess it was, and it seemed like a regular Sunday event. The street was sealed
off from traffic for several blocks to allow families to come together and enjoy
a day out. One group of kids was playing
street hockey using those Styrofoam noodles and a ball, and they were having a
blast! Another group were skateboarding
through a series of obstacles put up to test their expertise, and with everyone
waiting his or her turn to show off their skills. And on the next block, the BMXers were
getting pretty serious about being the best – it was like being at a rodeo for
kids on bikes. Mothers, fathers,
families stood and watched, chatted and shared in the fun – and not one of
those youngsters was toting a cellphone or some other distracting piece of
electronic equipment (and believe me, it’s all readily available in CR).
And here’s something else I noticed
as we walked along – Corinne observed the same thing – that babies under the
age of about a year or so were not put in strollers, or strapped to a parent so
that they were facing outwards to look at every stranger walking towards them,
rather they were carried in their mother’s arms, swaddled in a shawl and held
close to the heart. There was something
comforting about that, as if the child were deeply cherished, and even amid the
throng, would feel the mother’s (or grandmother’s) arms around him/her. I liked
that - it was as if the weight of the child were nothing loving arms could not
bear.
This is one of several statues of what I guess you could call "earth mother" women around the city. I wish I knew what inspired them - I would love to think it was the close, affectionate mothering of the women with their children.
This is one of several statues of what I guess you could call "earth mother" women around the city. I wish I knew what inspired them - I would love to think it was the close, affectionate mothering of the women with their children.
The next morning began with the
part of the tour I was secretly dreading; a flight on a small aircraft from San
Jose to Tortuguero on CR’s Caribbean coast.
You know how I feel about flying – not my favorite thing, which is
pretty rich coming from someone who was a flight attendant in earlier
years. That’s when Corinne and I met,
becoming flatmates, good friends, and travel companions. But my love of travel overrides my fears –
fortunately. Yet Corinne could not wait
to get into the aircraft, and bagged the front seat next to the pilot
immediately. That would be the pilot who appeared as if he had been playing
truant from high school to fly us to Tortuguero. I looked suspiciously at the 5-seater Cessna
(including the intrepid aviator), noting the two seats behind the pilot and
Corinne, then the small seat tucked into the rear, right in front of the tail. I gauged the weight of the two other
passengers waiting to board, and I thought – with good reason, I might add –
“Oh, here it comes.” Let me first tell
you something about me and 'planes – I like to sit as close to the front as
possible. Even my publisher’s publicist
knows that I will put up with pretty much everything that might be thrown at me
on a book tour in terms of travel, but seat me anywhere beyond about one third
of the way down the 'plane, and I might just take myself onto another
flight. And I prefer a window seat, not
so I can look out, but so I can close my eyes and burrow down. I looked at the pilot and said, “I don’t like
sitting at the back.” He regarded me
with pleading eyes. He said nothing, as
if he knew I’d understood what was needed.
I held up my hands in resignation.
“I know,” I said. “You want me in
that little seat so the load and trim of the aircraft is within legal limits
don’t you?” “Yes, I really do,” he said.
“Or we will never get off the ground.”
That's Corinne, having leapt into the seat next to the pilot.
That's Corinne, having leapt into the seat next to the pilot.
As we taxied down the runway I was wondering
how I would get out of that thing if we needed to a) abort take-off, b) crash land on terra firma, or c) crash in the sea. I figured my plan would
be to whack out the window, climb over passenger #3 having shoved him into
passenger #4, and either swim or run.
Corinne could get herself out for nabbing that front seat before
me! I must admit, I also took some nice
photos – I realized that if I didn’t look out the window, I would have to look
at the joins in the metal inside the Cessna, and they sort of moved a bit.
Next week: On toucans, teaching English in the village
school, a walking tree, lunch with the iguana and white-water rafting to the
Pacuare Lodge.
Thank you for sharing your adventures with us. I have never been to Costa Rica. Love the photos! I feel as if I am travelling with you and Corrine. I think that if I ever visit Central America, Costa Rica is the only country I would like to visit. Happy to hear that you recovered from your bronchitis. I got sick within days of my return from Denver ~ my doctor had to put me on inhaler and codeine for my cough! I am better now! I love to travel too. Funny, for you, it is your home. When I travelled to England, it was a big deal. I loved the villages in England. Remember that in California, it is unusual to see a building older than 100 years old. I also travelled to Scotland and Wales. Ireland is in the future. Thank you again for sharing. Have a terrific time!
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from Jacqueline: Thank you for your comment, Diana. The UK might be my "home" but it can always enchant and amaze me - last year I wrote a "Travels With Corinne" essay about our trip to Bath. It was great fun!
DeleteWhat an amazing trip! Kudos on facing your fears and taking one (back seat) for the team. My Central America trip in 1977 was a complete opposite, $1/night hotel and people's co-op "baptism in third world issues to Guatemala and Honduras, a wonderful adventure, meeting the warmest people I've ever known. We only got sick when we believed the waiter at the one fancy restaurant we visited and drank the water. We recovered with the care of the landlord's nephew, who had just received his medical degree (we were "good practice") and the chicken soup at our next farm visit. "If a poor man eats a chicken, one of them is sick." Thanks for sharing the adventure an the beauty . . . I might get addicted to "travel porn" myself. <3
ReplyDeletefrom Jacqueline: Travel porn is an easy addiction. And because it was a celebratory trip, we decided to push the boat out a bit in terms of where we stayed. My back will not stand a bad bed, and I cannot take risks with my digestive system!
DeleteA lodge just like this was our best trip ever. Loved it.
ReplyDeletefrom Jacqueline: Oh there was one more lodge that you would have loved - more about it next week! I loved it!
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ReplyDeleteEnjoyed reading this Jackie. Thank you for sharing and look forward to next installment. Costa Rica has long been on my bucket list. May just make it next year. Will be checking best time to go (re bugs and heat) and best places to stay as a more mature single woman. Sure you would not like to do a "travels with my aunt" essay??? Hugs, so pleased you enjoyed, you earned and deserved it. xx
from Jacqueline: I think Graham Green already wrote "Travels With My Aunt" - mind you, I'm game!!!
DeleteI loved reading about your adventures in Costa Rica, and look forward to the next installment. I lived there for seven years, and was back a few months ago for a visit. I still see things with a different "eye" from yours, since it is like a second home to me. But the culture is so warm and friendly. The friends I have made there and lasting friendships.
ReplyDeletefrom Jacqueline: Having lived in different places, it's true that being a visitor is never going to be the same as being a resident - times gives you a chance to have a deeper relationship with a given place. And a vacation should not be the same - otherwise it would not be vacation. But the important aspect of any travel for me is to try to balance wanting to see so much, and the desire to just take my time to swim in the deeper waters of an experience of place. When time is limited, we can only do our best - and remember to enjoy ourselves, our experiences, and the connections we make.
ReplyDelete"It gets dark and dangerous fast"
ReplyDeleteI love it. At the very least, it's a perfect line for a book review. And as a warning.... Brrr! I think I have to steal the pic of that sign and post it everywhere.
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Delete"I think I have to steal the pic of that sign and post it everywhere." I meant physically, around my house and cottage, and in my personal writing notes. Not online. It's yours.
from Jacqueline: Yes, I loved that sign - had I not been so worried about snakes, I might have laughed a bit more!!!
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